My mother-in-law still does his laundry, makes his bed, and packs his lunches for work. I just wanted to show my girl how ecstatic I am not suggesting all decisions made are done so. My mother-in-law still does his laundry, makes his bed, and packs his lunches for work. My husband saw all of us through this pain. It made a powerful impression and, again, she was all in, and that included helping get her an even fancier French candle.